Fewer reminders.
More everyday ownership.

Choose one thing you are tired of repeating. MyWins makes the expectation visible, records what actually happens and helps you see where your child is starting to take more ownership.

1
Real problem
to start with
7
Free days to spot
the pattern
+1 / −1
Simple feedback
without punishment
The pattern shift

From repeated reminders to visible progress

MyWins gives families a clearer rhythm: choose the everyday activities that matter, record what happens, and make progress visible across the week. The 7-Day Reset is free and requires no card.

The pattern many families know

You ask again and again
Your child forgets or pushes back
The small thing becomes an argument
The good moments get missed
Everyone ends the day frustrated

The MyWins pattern

Expectations are clear
Progress is visible
Children can see parent comments
Rewards feel achievable
Success gets repeated
The aim is simple: fewer repeated reminders, more ownership and more chances to celebrate progress
The journey

What actually happens when you use MyWins

The product is deliberately simple: make one expectation clear, record a Win or Miss, let your child see the progress, and use the pattern to decide what needs support next.

Start with what matters at home

Every family is different. Choose the categories that matter most, then add up to six activities for each one so the system reflects your child, your routines and your home.

✓Choose one everyday problem and use the free 7-Day Reset to spot where prompting is easing, where friction remains and what to keep working on
✓Choose from Routine, Responsibility, Character and Learning
✓Add clear activities children understand, not vague expectations they can argue with
✓Keep it focused with six activities per category so it stays manageable
RoutineResponsibilityCharacterLearning
MyWinsat homeSettings
Categories
Activities
Routine
3 activities
Responsibility
6 activities
Character
6 activities
Learning
5 activities
Pack school bag ×
Start homework calmly ×

Catch the moments that usually go unnoticed

Parents often remember the battles because they are loud. MyWins helps you capture the quiet wins too — effort, patience, independence and follow-through.

✓Record wins and misses in seconds
✓Add comments so children understand exactly what happened
✓Shift the focus from criticism to clear feedback and visible progress
MyWinsat homeAdd entry
Add an entryChoose the child, then tap Win or Miss.
Select childRhys ▾
7-Day ResetDay 3 of 7
Choose a category
After you tap, choose one of the activities saved for that category and add an optional note.

See patterns before they become habits

A busy week can make the hardest moments easier to remember than the quieter progress. MyWins gives you a simple weekly view of wins, misses and comments so you can see what may need support.

✓See wins and misses for the week at a glance
✓Review comments without relying on memory
✓Use the picture to support your child, not just correct them
Parent insightThis week
18 wins
3 misses
WinsMisses
Wins this week18Positive moments captured
Misses this week3Growth areas to support
+1Reading completed20 minutes done with no reminder
+1Homework bankedFinished before dinner with clear effort

Children have their own dashboard

This is where ownership starts. Children can log in, monitor progress, see comments from parents and understand what they are working towards.

✓Children see their own wins, comments, challenge rewards and progress
✓Each challenge shows the activity, target and reward together
✓The conversation moves from “I told you” to “look how close you are”
Rhys' dashboardChild view
Your challenge is moving forward See what you are closest to unlocking
🍿 Cinema Trip68 / 80
🎮 Gaming Time🎁 Ready soon
+15Wins today
★68Banked wins
🎁1Ready soon
Build ownershipCheck your next two wins for today
+1Reading completedParent comment: 20 minutes done with no reminder. Great focus.
+1Homework bankedParent comment: Finished before dinner. Clear effort today.
What to do next
Strongest habitBrush Teeth6-day strength
Power movePiano Challenge1/30 wins
⌂   Self-log at home

Children check in. You stay in control.

Children record what happened and how it went—even when you’re not there. Nothing affects their progress until you review and approve it.

✓Capture quiet winsNotice the positive moments you were not there to see.
✓One Self-log per activity, per dayKeeps records consistent and meaningful.
✓Nothing changes until you approveWins, misses, challenges and rewards stay pending.
✓Review in the right child’s contextThe dashboard opens where the update belongs.
✓Give useful feedback when you denyYour comment goes back to the child so they can correct and resubmit.
✓Keep challenge progress deliberateA Self-log Win only counts towards a challenge when you choose it.
Step 1Child viewLog how it went

Child sends a Win or Miss for parent review.

Real MyWins child Self-log screen showing a submitted check-in waiting for parent review
Step 2Parent viewApprove or deny

You review it, then decide whether it counts towards progress.

Real MyWins parent review screen showing a child Self-log awaiting approval
Child voice. Parent control. Approved updates become part of progress.
How to set it up

Set it up once. Keep daily use light.

Choose the activities that matter, make expectations clear and log progress across seven days. A simple daily update is just a +1 Win or −1 Miss with an optional note, so it is designed to take well under a minute.

Create child profile

Add their name, age, and pick a colour. Enable their login.

Define activities by category

Start with 3–6 specific, observable activities in total. For example, “school bag ready tonight” rather than “be responsible”.

Create a focused challenge

Choose the activity, wins target and reward together in one flow. There is no separate rewards setup.

Record and review

Record wins and misses as they happen, then use the dashboard to review progress and decide what needs attention next.

What parents need to know before starting

Clear expectations. No hidden catches.

MyWins should reduce mental load, not create another system for you to manage. These are the practical details that matter most.

01

After Day 7

Your history and dashboards stay saved. New recording pauses until you choose a paid plan. The Reset never converts automatically and no card is required to start.

02

Rewards are optional

You can use MyWins simply to make progress visible. If you do use a challenge, the reward can be an experience, privilege, choice, time together or extra independence — not something you have to buy.

03

Parent effort stays small

For a normal daily update, choose +1 Win or −1 Miss and add a note only when it helps. The aim is a quick check-in, not daily administration.

04

Introduce it as their progress

Start with one thing your child already knows how to do. Explain that MyWins is there to notice progress and reduce reminders — not to watch everything they do. Let them help choose the focus where possible.

Age 7–15, without one-size-fits-all expectations

Independence changes as children grow.

Age 7–9

Getting dressed, brushing teeth, packing a school bag, putting things away, starting a simple homework routine.

Age 10–12

Remembering school equipment, starting homework, preparing for clubs, managing a bedroom routine, following through without repeated prompts.

Age 13–15

Managing revision, deadlines, getting ready independently, keeping track of agreed responsibilities and taking more ownership of routines.

Why MyWins becomes more useful over time

From logging to useful parent guidance.

Progress Snapshot shows what happened. Personalised Insights surface patterns once there is enough activity. Parent Coach then turns limited derived signals from those patterns into a practical next step for the parent. Raw child comments and raw entry history are not sent through the paid AI interpretation route.

How AI-assisted features handle family data →
More than one parent or carer?MyWins currently has one parent account per family. We do not recommend sharing passwords. The right next product step is invite-based co-parent access, where each adult has their own login and the family chooses what they can view or approve.
What you are really building

Not just a reward. Real life skills.

A challenge reward gives the child a clear goal today. The deeper value is what repeated wins help them practise over time.

Responsibility

Doing what needs doing

Independence

Taking more ownership

Consistency

Repeating small wins

Character

Kindness, respect and resilience

Confidence

Seeing progress clearly

Ownership

Knowing the next step

Questions parents ask

Simple answers before you start

How do I personalise activities to my family?

Begin with 3–6 specific, observable activities in total. Instead of “be responsible”, try “school bag ready tonight” or “homework started at the agreed time”. You can edit them later.

Do I need to set up rewards separately?

No. You record everyday wins without creating a reward first. When one activity needs a focused challenge, you choose the reward inside that challenge alongside the wins target.

How do +1 Win and −1 Miss work?

Choose +1 when the activity happened and −1 when it did not. A Win adds to visible progress and can become a banked Win or be linked to a challenge. A Miss helps show where support is still needed, but it does not take away a banked Win or reduce a reward balance. The −1 is a visual marker for the day, not a punishment.

Can I record something from an earlier day?

Yes. Parents can backdate an entry by up to seven days. Choose the correct date before saving so the progress history stays accurate.

Does MyWins guarantee behaviour change?

No. Children and families respond differently. MyWins provides clearer expectations, visible progress and better information for parent decisions; it does not promise a fixed result or timeline.

What if my child does not use MyWins straight away?

The parent can keep the system moving while the child gets used to it. The child dashboard makes progress, challenges, banked wins and rewards visible, and optional Self-log lets the child take more ownership when it suits them. Any Self-log waits for parent approval.

Does a child need an email address?

No. The parent creates the child profile and the child signs in with the username and PIN set for that profile. Parent account and billing details stay outside the child view.

What if my child does not care about rewards?

You do not have to use a reward at all. MyWins can simply make progress visible. If a challenge helps, use something meaningful rather than expensive: choosing the film, extra time on an activity, choosing dinner, one-to-one time, a family outing, a privilege or extra independence.

What information does my child see?

Their name and the wins, misses, comments, challenges, rewards and progress entered for them by their parent. They do not see billing, the parent account or marketing.

Can we use MyWins on a phone or tablet?

Yes. MyWins is a responsive web app and can also be installed from a supported mobile browser. The parent and child sign-ins work across supported devices, so your saved MyWins activity is not tied to one phone or computer.

How do reminders work?

Reminders are optional and parent-controlled. You can choose a daily or weekly in-app reminder and, if useful, add the same reminder to your phone calendar. They are there to support the routine rather than create another stream of nagging.

What is Parent Coach?

Parent Coach is the paid guidance layer. MyWins calculates product signals from your activity, then uses limited derived signals to help explain what the pattern may mean and suggest one practical next step. It supports parent judgement rather than making decisions about a child.

How do I introduce MyWins without making my child feel watched?

Start with one agreed focus and frame MyWins as a way to reduce reminders and notice progress. Let your child help choose the focus where possible, keep comments specific rather than judgemental, and turn on Self-log only when it feels useful.

Can two parents or carers have separate logins?

Not yet. One parent account currently owns the family workspace. Separate invite-based co-parent access is the recommended next step so adults can have their own credentials without sharing a password.

Choose the one thing you are tired of repeating.

Start tonight. Track it for seven days and see where prompting is easing, where support is still needed and what your next focus should be. No card required.